Sorry, this post was deleted by the person who originally posted it. Most of the time you give a fuck about something, you’re either anxious about the future, angry/frustrated/sad about the past, or focused on things you can’t change and can’t control. Does it really matter? “You and everyone you know are going to be dead soon. You really don’t. You feel like a hypocrite. If you are too busy giving a fuck about so many things around you, you’ve practically stopped living. You sweat the small stuff when you’re not focused on the big stuff. For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. Who gives a fuck? I like you, I don't give a fuck 'bout your boyfriend Come on, let's link, can't do what I do, I can beat it up with no hands [Verse] Prada baby, she a flocker This track from Tupac’s debut album, 2Pacalypse Now, sees him venting his frustrations about racism, police bias and the like. 21 Signs You Dont Give A Crap About What Other People Think. … So you must be fine, right? That’s how champions are made and the world is changed. Highly recommend the "Don't Give A F@*k" tasting menu to go all-out on a feast of caviar, shellfish, steak, pasta, potato, greens, and a sugary finish. ... All the while being classy AF. The Life Changing Magic of Not Giving a Fuck, Who is completely indifferent to everything, Who doesn’t care about anything or anyone, If you don’t give a fuck at work, you’ll get fired, If you don’t give a fuck in business, you’ll soon be out of business, If you don’t give a fuck about your friends, you soon won’t have any friends, Whether or not other people approve of your decisions, The things you can’t control and can’t change, The expectations of others – unless it’s your boss or your customers, The opinions of others – especially those who don’t know what the fuck they’re talking about, Apologizing when you have nothing to be sorry for, Being overly agreeable and seeking rapport at all costs, Being overly concerned with the opinions of other people, Being overly loud in order to draw attention to yourself, Dressing in such a way that is likely to draw attention to you, Forcing complimentary attributes/stories about yourself into conversation, Posting pictures on Facebook and Instagram etc. Your time is up, I’ll tell you why (I’ll tell you why) You say you’re sorry. If you get nervous talking to girls – talk to a lot of them. Remember: You’ll be dead soon. “Maturity is what happens when one learns to only give a fuck about what’s truly fuckworthy.” – Mark Manson. Maybe sometimes, but not always, and definitely not most of the time. I used to give a fuck about everything. The more confident you are, the less fucks you’ll give in general, especially about what other people might think/say/do. You have to face that fear until you’re desensitized to it, until you don’t give a fuck about it any longer. Cut you off. Guess what — jumping into a relationship with someone isn’t going to help that. Ah, amazing. Ah, Ah, amazing. Whenever anyone said or did something I didn’t like, I would instantly let it go instead of analyzing it to death, or letting it build up into something big in my mind. Try out what I’m saying and see for yourself. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. Hold on wait a minute I don't give a (I don't give a) I don't give a, I don't give a, I don't give a [Zeale:] I don't give a I don't, I don't give a fuck I don't give a I don't, I don't give a fuck You don't really wanna see how it's gonna be When Zeale put a thought up in his head Ain't no going back and you knowin' that So you … Service was impeccable from start to finish and the sommelier is savvy and steered us in the right direction. Which means you give a fuck.” – Joe Rogan. "What you expect?" Desensitize yourself to the things that scare you. The point is that fucks have to be earned and then invested wisely.” – Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. For many people, this comes with old age. Is it really that important? I mean your vulnerability. Went from talking almost everyday and spending time together to just being ignored … 2018. “Between stimulus and response, there is a space. Meditation gives you space between you and your mind, and it allows you to detach from your triggers and to watch your thoughts without reacting to them, and to feel your emotions without being overwhelmed by them. However when you practice mindfulness and you bring your attention consciously back into the present moment, you become more resourceful, and your mind is less likely to wander or to come up with painful “why” questions about the past, or scary “what if” scenarios about the future. When you stop caring what other people think, no one will be able to manipulate you into doing anything you don’t want to do. But it’s too late now. They’re like children. Most people aren’t thinking about you anyway. It’s so easy to push their buttons because they have so many. “Do what you feel in your heart to be right for you’ll be criticized anyway.” – Eleanor Roosevelt. I crave chaos and have been consumed by despair. Even the people you think of as not giving a fuck such as the 9/11 hijackers, ISIS, Pablo Escobar etc. Stormy Daniels? For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. You obviously just don’t give af about me anymore, and you can say you never did but I really felt like you did. Joe Rogan is right: If someone makes a point of saying they don’t give a fuck, it’s almost always a dead giveaway that they do. If not – don’t worry about it. They’ll never know how much they hurt you, and you’re not exactly sure if that’s a good thing or a bad thing. It’s 2nd nature. I have also not given a fuck about many people and many things. You have to face that fear until you’re desensitized to it, until you don’t give a fuck about it any longer. Unpleasant necessities more pleasant and the unsavory shit sandwiches a little bit more savory. And if you go around giving a fuck about everything and everyone without conscious thought or choice – well, then you’re going to get fucked.” – Mark Manson, In this article we’re talking: “How to not give a fuck”. The way her eyes don't look at you, but into you. If you are too busy giving a fuck about so many things around you, you’ve practically stopped living. ... A woman that is willing to give … Went from talking almost everyday and spending time together to just being ignored … I say I don't give a fuck if the don't like me I say I don't give a fuck if the don't like me Oh no, I don't give a fuck if the don't like me Sorry I don't give a fuck if the don't like me! Or have you been brainwashed into giving a fuck about a bunch of bullshit? Nope, I don't mean your virginity. If you don’t feel like working then maybe you can will yourself to get a good workout. Status. No, not for things that are worth apologizing for, but for the stupid stuff — the stuff that you really don’t need to be sorry about. your own business, you don’t have any time left over to waste on unimportant crap that doesn’t matter. I dare you to take note, to count the the number of times you say sorry. http://nl.mtvema.com/stemBuy Now! But I promise you that after a while it becomes easier not to react then it does to react. One of the best ways to stop giving a fuck about the things that don’t matter, is to have something more important to focus on. Power. If you get nervous about public speaking – join Toastmasters and start practicing. You obviously just don’t give af about me anymore, and you can say you never did but I really felt like you did. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose.” – Steve Jobs. Now let’s take the concept a step further: Let’s define your fucks as your time, energy, and money.” – Sarah Knight. The song features rap vocals by American recording artist Nicki Minaj. I mean, if we could only give a few less fucks, or a few more consciously-directed fucks, then life would feel pretty fucking easy.” – Mark Manson. Go for your dreams or don’t – either way you’ll be dead soon. [Intro] Em D G C e|-----0-----2-----3-----0--| B|-----0-----3-----3-----1--| G|----0-----2-----0-----0----| D|-----0-----| A|-----3-----| E|-0-----3-----| [Verse 1] Em D G You call me all friendly C Em Tellin' me how much you miss me D Bm C That's funny, I guess you've heard my songs … “Nothing matters very much, and few things matter at all.” – Arthur Balfour. The big problem is, some friends either don’t care, or think you are weird. “In my life, I have given a fuck about many people and many things. Most people are stupid. People will criticize and complain no matter what you do. Do it until you’re bored with it and you just don’t give a fuck. No, I don't got shit to prove No, I ain't BROKE no more And I … How do you stop giving a fuck about the things that don’t matter? I did, and I was appalled. By Paul Hudson. You don’t have time to give a fuck. So you might as well do whatever you want to do. The truth is that everyone gives a fuck about something: Love. They’re like children who can’t help themselves. The things we can’t control and can’t change e.g. It doesn't appear in any feeds, and anyone with a direct link to it will see a message like this one. Before we go further, I want to draw to your attention one of the most common signs that you give too many fucks about the opinions of other people: Approval seeking. Have something more important to focus on. There really is no such thing as not giving a fuck. “I’m pretending I don’t give a fuck by saying “I don’t give a fuck”, and by putting that out there, I’m making a conscious decision to not give a fuck, but in doing so, I’m giving a fuck about not giving a fuck. 8. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. No matter how hard you try to get your act together, you don’t know which way is up in life. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. The only reason it seems hard now, is because you’ve been conditioned to react and so you’re used to it. So easily triggered. Just let the pen go—don't think, don't edit—and see what comes out. I rarely get triggered by anything. "I don't give a fuck now" "As a clever nigga, nuttin to play with" "Thank god he blew breath in my lungs" (AZ) So now I toast, to all my close niggas that's ghost Yall know the sos only soft niggas worry the most Come and get me, shit, I'm nasty like Ken Griffy Niggas is sissies, I … What we should be doing is prioritizing our fucks for the things that matter: “In life, our fucks must be spent on something. For others, we entered this world already careless. If you’re constantly engaging in one or more of the following behaviors, you probably give too many fucks: Do yourself a favor: Drop all attachment to what other people think/say/do, and don’t feel the need to answer/explain/justify yourself to anyone. Most people react compulsively to everything everyone says and does. Fuck 'em, I don't give a fuck if the don't like me! They’re so easily angered. It was written and produced by Madonna and Martin Solveig, with additional songwriting by Minaj and Julien Jabre. So you can try all you want. “Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. I’m very protective of any free time I have … "I Don't Give A" is an electro-funk song with syncopated electronic hip hop and industrial beats. “Then you’re not scared to try shit, because when you don’t give a fuck about what anybody says about you failing, you love failing.” – Gary Vaynerchuk. And in the short amount of time between here and there, you have a limited amount of fucks to give. The royal wedding? “Accept – then act. Woah, uh get your hands in the air And get to clapping 'em and, like, back and forth Because this is what you thought it wasn't It be's the brothers representin' the Dirty Dozen I be the F-R-O the double G See what themes you … Nothing is fair. You only get a limited number of fucks to give over your lifetime, so you must spend them with care. “Not giving a fuck—crucially—means releasing yourself from the worry, anxiety, fear, and guilt associated with saying no, allowing you to stop spending time you don’t have, with people you don’t like, doing things you don’t want to do.” – Sarah Knight. There comes a time in life when you simply can't be bothered to care about anything anymore. The problem with giving too many fucks about what other people think, is that you become afraid to take chances, your comfort zone starts to shrink, and you start holding back in life. My life is an empty promise, tired of taking blame. When I say I don’t give a fuck about Game of Thrones, I mean I don’t care about Game of Thrones. Whatever. that you know are likely to result in lots of compliments and likes, Mastering a skill, becoming a subject matter expert, Making progress on something that is important to you, Wearing clothes that suit you and make you look good. “You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” – Eleanor Roosevelt. So what are the things that we should and shouldn’t give a fuck about? See if it makes any difference at all. “Try not giving a fuck, there’s a lot of power in that.” – Marc Maron. You didn’t beg them to take you back. Laurel or Yanny? I’m not saying you shouldn’t give a fuck about anything, but here’s why you shouldn’t give a fuck about most things: Let’s be honest, most things aren’t important and don’t matter. And, like I said, the more you practice letting go, the easier it gets, and you’ll start to wonder why everyone else is so damn intolerant and reactive. 9 Non-Sexual Things That Make A Woman Sexy AF To A Man. Lyrics to 'I Just Don't Give A Fuck' by Eminem. If the answer is yes – do something about it. Very few, in fact. I’m beginning to think you don’t like me!” You: “Please don’t think that. Ask yourself: Will it matter one year from now? “Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.” – Lao Tzu. We're all sexy AF. Acquaintance: “You’ve said no to my invitation to lunch three times now. Everyone does. “The ability to reserve our fucks for only the most fuckworthy of situations would surely make life a hell of a lot easier. It’s better for you too. And I can show you how to take cash and bribe the cops And from the bars to the backyards, alleys and aves Subtracted, divide, add up, tally the math Stand direct, for dolo demand respect Hand solo, sit back and watch the plans connect Ya heard [Hook: x2] "I was destined to come" "What you expect?" Do what you want or don’t – either way you’ll be dead soon. You don’t have time to give a fuck. There’s high compatibility but low chemistry . If you’re constantly triggered and upset by everything like I was, you’ll definitely need to make a conscious effort to “let go” in the beginning. And like the road not taken, it was the fucks not given that made all the difference.” – Mark Manson, If you liked this article you’ll love: The Life Changing Magic of Not Giving a Fuck, The Top 10 Rules of Influence and Persuasion. Failure would be less terrifying. Anyone can yell and scream and argue and fight, but it’s even tougher to let things go, especially in real-time as they happen, without the slightest bit of anger, hatred, or resentment. My parents will give you and me a ride to school today. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. Cookies help us deliver our Services. Almost everything, all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure, these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. If you give a fuck about getting rejected in sales, make so many calls and get so many rejections that you just don’t give a fuck any more. After a while this becomes automatic and easy even when you’re not meditating. I love you and the time we’ve had together but I see no future anymore. Wish I saw how meaningless I was sooner. can be an awesome thing. It’s liberating. I love you and the time we’ve had together but I see no future anymore. Without exception: The people that are most easily triggered and upset by every little thing, have an overactive mind that has been conditioned to react to everything. This was extremely difficult at first, and I was definitely triggered by a lot of things along the way, but now it’s become easy and effortless. I don’t need your love. The next time you feel the urge to speak up and say something – especially when someone says or does something stupid – don’t – and then see what happens. It makes you sound like you’re trying too hard. You’ll start kicking some serious ass. You’ll regret it when you get older, and if you’re like me, you might even look back in disgust at any approval seeking behavior. Styles P. G-Host. In that space is our power to choose our response. The problem is that too many of us give too many fucks about the things that aren’t important and that don’t matter. Whatever the present moment contains, accept it as if you had chosen it. all gave lots of fucks, maybe not about the same things that you or I do, but they did. They’re wrong, of course, but they don’t know that, so you’re left to suffer alone. Don’t like a guy just because he’s hot. When you stop giving a fuck you’ll take more chances, and experience more of what life has to offer. Maybe you would like to take a friend to some place where you can both volunteer for a good cause. I think this would be a good practice for most people. I knew I was, just didn’t it was this bad, Press J to jump to the feed. ... You certainly don't care if people decide they don't like you. They’re thinking about themselves. (C) 2012 Interscope RecordsVote for best Dutch Act now! Alternate cover edition of ISBN 9780062457738 In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people. Try taking “sorry” out of the equation. Money. You feel lost in life. Alternate cover edition of ISBN 9780062457738 In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people. Giving a fuck about everything the world wants you to have makes you more miserable about what you are not or don’t have. Even if someone says something intended to annoy or trigger me I don’t care and I don’t respond. It’s impossible not to give a fuck about anything, nor is that desirable. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” – Victor Frankl. I'm Ghost, kid Like I give a fuck Niggas sayin' they top five, like I give a fuck We can let shots fly, like I give a fuck They could die or not. “Some people need to be told their shit stinks!”, “There are times that I need to speak up and say something!”. You can’t make everyone happy. In fact, most of the people who say they “don’t give a fuck” give lots of fucks. Talking to a stranger is an act of bravery; talking to a crush is even bolder. “Think of how stupid the average person is, and realize half of them are stupider than that.” – George Carlin. “I utilized my phone.” Nope, you just used it.Spouting a 50-cent word when a 10-center will do doesn’t make you sound smarter. The opinions of others, what other people think of us, whether or not someone else likes us. Music video by Eva Simons performing I Don't Like You. Unless you’ve made a promise or signed a contract you don’t ‘owe’ anyone anything. Eminem - The Slim Shady LP (Explicit) - Just Don't Give A Fuck Ah, Ah, amazing. I promise you it helps. Or only because you’ve been brainwashed by other people/the media/social media to give a fuck? I don’t often accept lunch invitations because of my busy schedule. The question is simply how we each choose to allot our fucks. Rejection less painful. Do it until you’re bored with it and you just don’t give a fuck. Music video for Lil Jon & The East Side Boyz - I Don't Give A (feat. Sex. So save it, get gone, shut up (Too late now) ‘Cause if you think I care about you now. Do it until you’re bored with it and you just don’t give a fuck. The more you desperately want to be like someone else, the more unworthy you feel. Why do you care? "I don't give … I don't give a got damn 'bout you, see I don't give a fuck See I don't give a, give a damn 'bout you, see I don't give a fuck I don't give ... Ghost Wars. If you get nervous about public speaking – join Toastmasters and start practicing. Why should you care what the average idiot thinks? That was until I made a conscious effort to stop being triggered by the things that annoyed me about other people. You know you don’t … “Ask yourself the question: “Will this matter a year from now?” – Richard Carlson. Giving a fuck about everything the world wants you to have makes you more miserable about what you are not or don’t have. Besides, as we know, most hot guys are assholes. Be so busy with your goals that you don’t have time to sweat the small stuff, Make a conscious effort. What you’ll find is that 99.99% of the time it doesn’t make any difference at all. Work your stuff out and when you’re actually ready for a relationship, you’ll be more likely to find the right guy. Always work with it, not against it.” – Eckhart Tolle. Not giving a fuck isn’t easy at first, especially if you’ve been brainwashed and conditioned to give a fuck, but the more you practice acceptance and letting go, the easier it gets.